Self-criticism and pulling down others in order to feel good your self is a sign of low self-esteem.
Everyone wants a success story.
- Some get theirs by working hard
-Some by pulling down and so seeming taller.
People who are perfect would never criticise when others make mistakes. Instead, they encourage them to be more careful and avoid recurrence of such mistakes. For instance, when the driver of your car fails to stop before the red signal, a Good mannered person will say" I know you are a good driver except when you get near to the signal".
However, most of us tend to be harsh and rude when confronted with such occasions. But think a while.. If the other person (being so criticised) also becomes reactive, no way out. Both will be landing in a duel and end in bitter emotions and expressions. Ultimately spoiling the otherwise cordial relationship.
Especially, when the criticism emerges from a person that is inexperienced and having no basic character of himself, it's bound to create havoc on the person-in-crticism who is well experienced and more disciplined .
I have a friend giving lengthy lectures about the office discipline but failing in his own work.
So Think twice before you scold others.
People who are perfect would never criticise when others make mistakes. Instead, they encourage them to be more careful and avoid recurrence of such mistakes. For instance, when the driver of your car fails to stop before the red signal, a Good mannered person will say" I know you are a good driver except when you get near to the signal".
However, most of us tend to be harsh and rude when confronted with such occasions. But think a while.. If the other person (being so criticised) also becomes reactive, no way out. Both will be landing in a duel and end in bitter emotions and expressions. Ultimately spoiling the otherwise cordial relationship.
Especially, when the criticism emerges from a person that is inexperienced and having no basic character of himself, it's bound to create havoc on the person-in-crticism who is well experienced and more disciplined .
I have a friend giving lengthy lectures about the office discipline but failing in his own work.
So Think twice before you scold others.
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