Monday, January 27, 2014
Saturday, January 25, 2014
Any Nuts here
No . You are wrong.
This is not the picture of walnuts .
Actually the photo shows the Sikh soldiers marching during the rehearsal for the Republic Day (26thJanuary)parade in NewDelhi, India.
What a discipline indeed! All soldiers making a uniformity in whatever they do.
SALUTE THE LARGEST DEMOCRACY IN THE WORLD.
Thursday, January 23, 2014
Success rarely comes before Failure
Even in the dictionary, "Success" comes after "Failure" only, unlike "Work"which occurs after Success in dictionary.
So, understand that though you work hard , you are bound to confront failure.
That failure might occur once or many times.
But never give up and keep on working with your aim at Success only.
Definitely you would get success ultimately.
That success will taste sweeter than any thing else. Like seeing a fruit in a tree grown with care.
Never Give up your efforts until you reach your goal.
So, understand that though you work hard , you are bound to confront failure.
That failure might occur once or many times.
But never give up and keep on working with your aim at Success only.
Definitely you would get success ultimately.
That success will taste sweeter than any thing else. Like seeing a fruit in a tree grown with care.
Never Give up your efforts until you reach your goal.
Monday, January 20, 2014
Read Ebook
The eBook version of my poetry book " Colors of Life" is now available at Amazon.
Just click this link Colors of Life to buy this book for anytime and anywhere reading on your mobile or tablet or PC.
Just click this link Colors of Life to buy this book for anytime and anywhere reading on your mobile or tablet or PC.
Saturday, January 18, 2014
Punctuation matters
Punctuation makes a huge impact!
Take for instance this popular example of the power of punctuation:
Thursday, January 16, 2014
Best Practices of Commenting
Everyday we are reading so many articles or blogs offline or online. We tend to feel or think over the ideas or information that we read. Some of us do use them for our guidance while some make us reflect by way of writing comments or feedback. However, such reactions need to be genuine and polite. The following are the 7 best ways of making your comments or feedback.
1. Use your real name (i.e., not a keyword, a website name, company name, or generic alias). A real name strengthens your brand as an authority in your area as well as increases transparency and trust.
3. You naturally promote yourself by providing unique insight – let this exude your confidence in your expertise, rather than blatantly promoting yourself in another blogger’s comments section.
3. Be relevant to the the blogger’s topic as well as their reader’s interests and needs.
4. Provide thoughtful commentary that shows you read the post, understood it, and have your own unique insights to bring to the table.
5. Make careful and calculated assertions without provoking arguments or will jump to conclusions before taking in the full context. This can backfire Read, ask for clarification if you need it, and then provide your insights.
6. Prior to submitting your comment, proofread for any wayward grammar as well as destructive commentary that was written out of anger (it will only hurt your credibility and embarrass the blogger).
7. Most blogs will prompt contact information prior to commenting (e.g., website address). Use this as an opportunity to allow other people to connect with you, but don’t push it. If there isn’t a proper place for the link (i.e., a field provided), link at the end of your comment with a contextual lead-in. And like your articles, ensure your link leads to relevant content.
Hope the above is useful for a healthy and meaningful commenting on another blog or article.
Monday, January 13, 2014
Marriages made in....
The opinion differs from person to person depending the experiences they had or have.
Some people say" Marriages are made in Heaven"
Some others deny this strongly as" No. They are made in Hell"
Still some others say " Marriages are made in Heaven but life is made boring on earth.
Bachelors are a happy lot as no such problem is confronted by them. Because, they are ignorant of or averse to the marriage itself.
Whatever said, they are the expressions borne out from the perceptions of actual life.
But for a person with a balanced and practical mind will never make such declaration as "Marriages are made in Hell" .
How you treat the various situations in our life , whether with understanding or without self confidence , is all that matters. Only when we know the reality of life process, which is common to all living things on this earth, we learn to appreciate the plus and minus of life.
Then only a person will have a wholesome and meaningful life.
Some people say" Marriages are made in Heaven"
Some others deny this strongly as" No. They are made in Hell"
Still some others say " Marriages are made in Heaven but life is made boring on earth.
Bachelors are a happy lot as no such problem is confronted by them. Because, they are ignorant of or averse to the marriage itself.
Whatever said, they are the expressions borne out from the perceptions of actual life.
But for a person with a balanced and practical mind will never make such declaration as "Marriages are made in Hell" .
How you treat the various situations in our life , whether with understanding or without self confidence , is all that matters. Only when we know the reality of life process, which is common to all living things on this earth, we learn to appreciate the plus and minus of life.
Then only a person will have a wholesome and meaningful life.
Saturday, January 11, 2014
How to Meditate ?
Meditation has been cited again and again as an incredible benefit that regulates emotion (including stress) as well as improves verbal reasoning, attention span.About 30 minutes of meditation daily could help improve symptoms of anxiety and depression ,according to a research study.
Meditation isn't easy - at first. Don't feel bad if you can't sit still for more than 3 minutes when you initially begin. It takes practice. Allow meditation to become a part of your routine and you will build momentum. Hinduism is the source of this valuable tool for enhancing and leading a peaceful and productive life.
How to do meditation?
- Find a comfortable and quiet space.
- With your eyes closed, sit on the floor (or on a cushion on the floor) in a cross legged position. Rest your hands in your lap or you can choose to rest your hands palms up on your knees or thighs. Alternately, you can lay on your back on the floor with your palms facing up and feet shoulder-distance apart. This is what yogis call Savasana or "corpse pose."
- Check for any tension you may be holding. Gently shake your head up and down, left to right to release neck tension. If you're seated, allow your head to rotate forward slightly so the crown of your head is up.
- Breathe evenly to relax. Imagine your breath is a calm ocean wave coming into shore and receding back from the shore.
- In your mind, repeat a mantra. This can be a phrase, a question, a problem, or any obstacle you are trying to find a solution to overcome. "OM" or "AUM" is the beneficial mantra used by Hindus to practise meditation.
- Be patient and unembarrassed. Allow yourself to be in this meditative state: let go of distractions. Your solutions, answers, and ideas will come to you.
You can meditate anywhere from 10, 30, or 60 minutes.
When you come out of your meditative state, don't immediately get up or you may risk a dizzy spell. Simply open your eyes and allow your breathing to return to its normal state for a minute and then get up. If you have meditated while laying on your back, roll onto your side for a minute and then come to a seated position. Once your breathing has returned to normal, feel free to get up.
Wednesday, January 8, 2014
Tonic
Anything that Motivates the fatigued or sick body or mind can be termed as Tonic.
When you feel often tired or exhausted, you feel like eating or doing something that induces or stimulates your system to become active and energetic .
For example, by seeing a fresh flower or by reading a good book or by listening to soothing music or pep talk of experts, We tend to feel recharged in our mind.
However, to make your body free from the fatigue or the after effects of a disease cured already, we consume special preparations of medications called "Tonic" .
Even the comforts of consolations from others are in the nature of Tonic only.
The encouragement and cheers given to a person for competing in anything is also a tonic .
But consumption of anything that temporarily induces a person to perform better cannot be termed as Tonic. Liquor, Tranqullizer and Steroid are some examples for this nature.
When you feel often tired or exhausted, you feel like eating or doing something that induces or stimulates your system to become active and energetic .
For example, by seeing a fresh flower or by reading a good book or by listening to soothing music or pep talk of experts, We tend to feel recharged in our mind.
However, to make your body free from the fatigue or the after effects of a disease cured already, we consume special preparations of medications called "Tonic" .
Even the comforts of consolations from others are in the nature of Tonic only.
The encouragement and cheers given to a person for competing in anything is also a tonic .
But consumption of anything that temporarily induces a person to perform better cannot be termed as Tonic. Liquor, Tranqullizer and Steroid are some examples for this nature.
Monday, January 6, 2014
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Friday, January 3, 2014
SMS Greetings
Greetings received by SMS
31st December,Calendar says Turn Me
Time says Plan Me
Future says Win me
Money says Earn me
God says Remember me
I always remember all those that stood with me
U r 1 of them.
Wishing Happy New Year2014.
Do you like....if so, pl share it.
31st December,Calendar says Turn Me
Time says Plan Me
Future says Win me
Money says Earn me
God says Remember me
I always remember all those that stood with me
U r 1 of them.
Wishing Happy New Year2014.
Do you like....if so, pl share it.
Wednesday, January 1, 2014
New Year Resolution for Ever
The pomp and spirit should not end at the end of the first day of a year. That too a NEW YEAR.
Let's enjoy and live the life with the following resolutions for our New Year 2014
- N ever harm others, in any manner
- E xchange even the neagtivism in a positive way
-W ork hard for self and others
-Y earn for peaceful and happy life
-E liminate those things that spoil and affect the environment
-A lways help other, though in a small way
-R eview the propgress and initiate actions that benefit all that thrive on this planet.
Wishing Happy Year2014.
New Book of Poems
This is the Book of collection of poems written by me and published on 28/12/2013. One of the poems is reproduced herein for your view and review.
Blessed is the one
To be born as Human
Blessed more is the one
To be born in the elite clan.
Blessed most is the one
To be born as selfless person.
Do not forget to give your valuable feedback.
Monday, December 30, 2013
Friday, December 27, 2013
Mangrove Forest
These are the rarest marsh land situated near the seashore of Bay of Bengal.
What appear to be the trunks of trees, are actually the roots of the water dependant mangrove forest trees.
This place , Pichavaram, is preserved as a Eco centre and declared as a Eco tourism spot.
Earlier, many movies were made here with boat chasing scenes as the climax of the story.
Why the film makers deserted this beautiful scenic place, is a question mark.
Wednesday, December 25, 2013
Monday, December 23, 2013
Saturday, December 21, 2013
Dead man comes alive
What will be the situation and the consequences if a person said to be dead has come alive.
During the public elections, many dead people will become live to cast their votes in favour of the party that desires to win at any cost. Because the adminstrative machinery or the concerned family of expired person failed to get that name deleted from the voters list.
In another case, dead man came alive to the office that had long back treated him as expired. Now the said person has to produce a document certifying that he is very much alive.
Strange is the world.
A person was given to all the rites of the last journey and cremated also. Later after a few months, the said dead man appeared in front of his family members and claimed that he lost his memory and strayed into another town, and now regained his self. The family and relatives were shell shocked and happy as well.
A person was given to all the rites of the last journey and cremated also. Later after a few months, the said dead man appeared in front of his family members and claimed that he lost his memory and strayed into another town, and now regained his self. The family and relatives were shell shocked and happy as well.
Thursday, December 19, 2013
Clamour for more
Contentment with what is available now makes you live peacefully.
Yearning to get more within short time definitely lands you in trouble in innumerable ways.
First you need to take strain both physically and mentally.
Second, at the same time, you have to ensure what you have is maintained and not lost.
Third, you have to fight against the obstacles including time factor, that will appear in a variety.
On the other hand, when you lead a self contented life, more time , options and efforts are available at your disposal. That means, you lead the happy life at it's normal pace without exertion or loss of emotions.
Clamour to make more money, rewards, fame or power than what you are entitled as measured by the amount of efforts and qualification, is like a person weighing 65 Kgs trying to lift a load of 200 Kgs.
Always assess your eligibility before you strive for anything.
Also you can raise your standards by adding new skills and knowledge before aiming for new heights of life.
Tuesday, December 17, 2013
Snoring issue
Recently I was travelling in a bus . My neighbour was reading a book on spiritualism.
The whole environ inside and outside the bus was quite excepting the hissing engine of Benz bus. Suddenly, I felt the familiar but disturbing sound inside the bus.
Yes, it was the whistling sound from my neighbour. Snoring.
Usually the snoring person will not be aware of his problem.Unless somebody exposes it to him.
A person complained to his fellow as " Why are you making such disturbance". The friend innocently replied" How can I control that as it comes out when I am asleep".
Snoring is one another sleep related problem like Sleep-Talking and Sleep-Walking.
A wife asked her family doctor to do something to control her husband's sleep-talking. The doctor said " There is no cure available for it as it's natural process." But the lady replied" In that case, at least treat him to talk louder . Because, I couldn't hear when he talks during that time".
When a woman requested her family doctor to stop her husband's talking during sleep,
the phsician casually remarked " Why don't you allow him speak at least in sleep".
Snoring with very high but with alternating pitch needs medical care.
Sleep apnea is the disorder to be treated without delay. Because, a person with this problem literally stops breathing.It's common among obese and middled aged people.
It can be controlled by wearing a device that forces air under pressure into the nose.In severe cases of breathing problem, surgery may be required.
Some of the prevention methods to control this problem are:
1) Stop smoking
2) Sleep on the side.Avoid lying on the back
3) Raise the level of pillow so that head rests above the body level.
Sunday, December 15, 2013
Ten Vital Tips for Saving Time
Many a times, we are confronted with shortage of time or inability to focus on issues that warrant our personal attention. This sort of situation arises mainly due to our improper planning and execution. Here the most vital ideas are listed for enabling a person to effectively utilize the limited and irreversible time .
1.Focus on the Important and Urgent things
2.Remove the Clutter
3.Get Organized and Stay That Way
4.Set Daily Goals and Rewards
5.Execute Decisions Faster
6.Delegate and Learn to Love It
7.Just Say “No”to other works or even entertainment.
8. Seek others help when in a dilemma
9.Avoid last minute rush.
10.Learn While You Workout
You can develop your own ways but definitely they will revolve around these ideas only.
1.Focus on the Important and Urgent things
2.Remove the Clutter
3.Get Organized and Stay That Way
4.Set Daily Goals and Rewards
5.Execute Decisions Faster
6.Delegate and Learn to Love It
7.Just Say “No”to other works or even entertainment.
8. Seek others help when in a dilemma
9.Avoid last minute rush.
10.Learn While You Workout
You can develop your own ways but definitely they will revolve around these ideas only.
Thursday, December 12, 2013
Chase Your Dreams
"Chase your dreams, but do not take short cuts. The path might be tough but don't give up".
This is the gold advice given to Sachin Tendulkar, World's Top Cricketer having the world record of 100 centuries scored over a span of 24 years since 1990.
Really a Super dad was that father.
So have dreams and achieve them through legitimate means and methods.
Such achievements will be in the memories of everybody.
Tuesday, December 10, 2013
Rules Are for Our Wellfare only
The rules of any institution or Law or Society are meant for the safety and welfare of the people.
These rules are applicable to all the people uniformly without any discrimination or favor.
To understand clearly, a few examples are listed below.
1) Road rules not only make your drive safely and also protect the lives of those moving on the road, pedestrians or other vehicles.
2) Office rules provide for the discipline and conduct of the work in a congenial and systematic manner.
3) Rules of a Coop society enable its members to make transactions in a transparent and uniform method.
4) Rules of Regulating Body prevent the unfair and unhealthy practices of marketing and competition among the countries, business firms, people.
5) Rules of a Public Transport company prevent unauthorized entry and carriage.
But the Rules should be changed in tune with the needs of the time also.
Never try to bend the rules to suit your convenience or to favor somebody.
Always respect the Rules of the land wherever you are.
These rules are applicable to all the people uniformly without any discrimination or favor.
To understand clearly, a few examples are listed below.
1) Road rules not only make your drive safely and also protect the lives of those moving on the road, pedestrians or other vehicles.
2) Office rules provide for the discipline and conduct of the work in a congenial and systematic manner.
3) Rules of a Coop society enable its members to make transactions in a transparent and uniform method.
4) Rules of Regulating Body prevent the unfair and unhealthy practices of marketing and competition among the countries, business firms, people.
5) Rules of a Public Transport company prevent unauthorized entry and carriage.
But the Rules should be changed in tune with the needs of the time also.
Never try to bend the rules to suit your convenience or to favor somebody.
Always respect the Rules of the land wherever you are.
Saturday, December 7, 2013
Helmet helps You in many ways
Helmet , the Head Guard" has more advantages than what you know.
Do not wear it for the sake of your complying with Traffic rules.
Of course, some may have allergy to wearing the helmet continuously. Another will feel suffocation when wearing it.Still some others will sweat heavily.
Each individiaul should divise his own method to overcome these shortcomings from waering the helmet.
Because, Helmet benefits you in more ways as listed below.
1) Protects against wind ,dust and flyng birds or insects
2) Protects aginst glaring and hot sun light
3) Protects during rain
4) Serves as a carrier in emergency
Never use an old helmet with lot of scratches and cracks as it is unsafe to use.
Old helmets can be used to 1) grow plants by hanging them from a roof or trellis 2) provide sheletr for birds/animals like sparrows, pigeons, squirrels,etc..
Do not wear it for the sake of your complying with Traffic rules.
Of course, some may have allergy to wearing the helmet continuously. Another will feel suffocation when wearing it.Still some others will sweat heavily.
Each individiaul should divise his own method to overcome these shortcomings from waering the helmet.
Because, Helmet benefits you in more ways as listed below.
1) Protects against wind ,dust and flyng birds or insects
2) Protects aginst glaring and hot sun light
3) Protects during rain
4) Serves as a carrier in emergency
Never use an old helmet with lot of scratches and cracks as it is unsafe to use.
Old helmets can be used to 1) grow plants by hanging them from a roof or trellis 2) provide sheletr for birds/animals like sparrows, pigeons, squirrels,etc..
Thursday, December 5, 2013
Balanced approach
Good and Bad are common in our life. One remaining unaffected by them is said to be a great person.
Even when anything unjust or bad means good to others, refraining from that is considered to be the attribute of an ideal person.
When the mind leads to doing a wrong, a person should get alert to keep away from it. Crooked mind always leads to wrong words and deeds.
Even when the worst situation of poverty to a person,his unbiased approach will be applauded by all. The story of King Harichandra confirms this.
Fame and Blame that remain after a person's life speak volumes about the character of the person.
World praises,remembers and follows only the good things.
Because that is the ideal way to lead life .
Tuesday, December 3, 2013
Speak pleasantly
What you speak does matter to others.
So have a pleasant way of saying anything , instead of using harsh and rude tone.
It's something like a ripe fruit tasting sweeter than the unripe one.
When we speak in a pleasing manner, it adds value to both the speaker and the listener.
Your speech should make the audience feel wanting more from you.
There are people that keep on talking without minding whether the other side is interested in their lecture.
So keep your talk short and sweet to appeal to others.
Pleasant speech will earn friends. Even from enemies.
Why should prefer a unripe fruit to a Fully formed fruit.
Why should prefer a unripe fruit to a Fully formed fruit.
Sunday, December 1, 2013
Hospitality
Wealth earned in our life is to treat and help the guests that come to you.
When guest waits in your house, you should not eat secretly : even if it is the life saving ambrosia.
One who treats the guest with true love will never fail in his life.
On the contrary, improper and insincere hospitality is bound to instil hatred and detachment between the host and the guest.
What you sow is what you reap.
If you treat your guests with love and affection , the same will be paid back to you .
Thursday, November 28, 2013
Pure love
Life without love has no charm. It is like a lonely tree in a desert.
Similarly, a person without love is a skin-clad bone cage only.
Love consists two types as Specific and Pure.
Specific type refers to the normal love and affection among human beings. This is generally restricted to the members within a group. Example is Family.
Pure love looks beyond and extends to other life forms like Animals, Insects, Birds,etc...
Pure love has no limitations like selfishness, region, creed or caste.
It has no boundaries and in fact integrates with Nature .
Pure love shares with others.
Pure love helps others in times of grief and sorrows.
Pure love breeds enduring peace and happiness .
Sunday, November 24, 2013
Discipline is Strength
Discipline is always misunderstood as "strictness" or " rules".
Actually it refers to a system or set of basic principles for our life.
Self discipline makes you a saint.
Adherence to self discipline at all times is the difficult aspect of our life.
Making others follow such discipline becomes the most difficult .
A person with such discipline is considered to be the noblest of all.
Here the discipline mainly comprises of the following aspects.
- practice of honesty
- possession of patience and tolerance
- readiness to sacrifice
- compassion for others
- unbiased approach
- humbleness
- simplicity
Persons with these great qualities lived among us. They are few and far between. And they are praised as the saviours of humankind. In fact, they become Gods.
Friday, November 22, 2013
Handling Pets
Without having a pet like Lovebird, Parrot, Cat, Dog,Fish,etc..., in your house, there is no charm in life. Because, they form a source of refreshment to out sagging minds and also they prove a life of integration with Mother Nature, though in a small way.
However, exercise caution when you deal with your pets. Their fur, parasites and infections can affect you in several ways. Of these, the parasites wreck most of the damages. Major parasites are given below.
- Tapeworm can infect your vital organs like lungs, liver , brain,etc..
- Roundworm would impair your eyesight
- Hook worm produces skin itches an rashes
By adopting the following precautions, you can , not only enjoy your pet, but avoid getting affected from their contact.
1) Wash hands every time
2) Deworm your pets
3) Wash your pets once in a week
4) Visit the Veterinary doctor once in 6 months or when emergency arises.
However, exercise caution when you deal with your pets. Their fur, parasites and infections can affect you in several ways. Of these, the parasites wreck most of the damages. Major parasites are given below.
- Tapeworm can infect your vital organs like lungs, liver , brain,etc..
- Roundworm would impair your eyesight
- Hook worm produces skin itches an rashes
By adopting the following precautions, you can , not only enjoy your pet, but avoid getting affected from their contact.
1) Wash hands every time
2) Deworm your pets
3) Wash your pets once in a week
4) Visit the Veterinary doctor once in 6 months or when emergency arises.
Tuesday, November 19, 2013
Don't Believe Your Eyes
Don't Believe Your Eyes
Generally we judge a person or thing based on what we hear or see.
That's the incorrect way of making judgement. One swallow definitely doesn't make a summer.
'A person coming out of the police station' does not mean the involvement in a crime.
'Driving a luxury car' doesn't make a person rich.
'Wearing simple clothes' should not be mistaken as a poor person.
'Speaking in another language ' doesn't make a person native of that place or region.
'Misbehaviour on one occasion' cannot brand a person as bad in nature.
Many of the crimes are borne out of circumstances. But the wrong conviction goes to make a person to repeat the crimes. If opportunities are given, many such convicts prove their worth. This can be seen from their conduct during their stay in a prison.
That's why in a Court of law, sufficient time is given to the accused to present the truth and circumstances of the crime. Only after getting both the views and evidences on the crime, judgement is made. But not based on the circumstances alone .
So next time, do not decide about a person or event based on what you hear or see only.
Look into the circumstances and evidences and also through close monitoring , you can arrive at a fair conclusion.
Saturday, November 16, 2013
Don't be carried away by Apperance
Generally we judge anything by its appearance rather than by knowing its nature or by understanding through interactions.
That is to say " Impression by Appearance is felt more than expression".
But this method quite often gives us a wrong opinion about a thing or person.
Rose flower looks gorgeous but the sharp thorn underneath.
Spiny Jack fruit is hard and tough in the exterior but sweet and nutritious food inside.
Colorful and Vase-like flowers are attractive but swallow the visitor.
Earthworms are tiny and slimy but make the soil fit for cultivation.
Sun looks torrid and blinding but serves as the source of energy .
Hedges are prickly and dense but they form the fence.
Like wise, there are good qualities in each and every person.
Let us try to understand that and appreciate it.
This mindset of positivism is bound to be more useful to transform even a bad character into a great person.
That is to say " Impression by Appearance is felt more than expression".
But this method quite often gives us a wrong opinion about a thing or person.
Rose flower looks gorgeous but the sharp thorn underneath.
Spiny Jack fruit is hard and tough in the exterior but sweet and nutritious food inside.
Colorful and Vase-like flowers are attractive but swallow the visitor.
Earthworms are tiny and slimy but make the soil fit for cultivation.
Sun looks torrid and blinding but serves as the source of energy .
Hedges are prickly and dense but they form the fence.
Like wise, there are good qualities in each and every person.
Let us try to understand that and appreciate it.
This mindset of positivism is bound to be more useful to transform even a bad character into a great person.
Thursday, November 14, 2013
Beware of Diabetes
Today 14th November is celebrated as "World Diabetes Day".
Here are the most common symptoms that possibly reflect the Diabetes in you.
- Frequent urination
- Frequent urination
- Increased thirst
- Increased hunger
- Weakness and fatigue
- Weight loss
- Blurred vision
-Tingling or numbness
- Sores that do not heal
- Infections
- Dry, itchy, or scaly skin
- Irritability
If you notice any of these, you may have diabetes or be pre-diabetic and should see your doctor. Being overweight or being older may also predispose you to diabetes.
For detailed information, go to http://www.diabetescare.net
Monday, November 11, 2013
You need a Qualification to criticise others
Self-criticism and pulling down others in order to feel good your self is a sign of low self-esteem.
Everyone wants a success story.
- Some get theirs by working hard
-Some by pulling down and so seeming taller.
People who are perfect would never criticise when others make mistakes. Instead, they encourage them to be more careful and avoid recurrence of such mistakes. For instance, when the driver of your car fails to stop before the red signal, a Good mannered person will say" I know you are a good driver except when you get near to the signal".
However, most of us tend to be harsh and rude when confronted with such occasions. But think a while.. If the other person (being so criticised) also becomes reactive, no way out. Both will be landing in a duel and end in bitter emotions and expressions. Ultimately spoiling the otherwise cordial relationship.
Especially, when the criticism emerges from a person that is inexperienced and having no basic character of himself, it's bound to create havoc on the person-in-crticism who is well experienced and more disciplined .
I have a friend giving lengthy lectures about the office discipline but failing in his own work.
So Think twice before you scold others.
People who are perfect would never criticise when others make mistakes. Instead, they encourage them to be more careful and avoid recurrence of such mistakes. For instance, when the driver of your car fails to stop before the red signal, a Good mannered person will say" I know you are a good driver except when you get near to the signal".
However, most of us tend to be harsh and rude when confronted with such occasions. But think a while.. If the other person (being so criticised) also becomes reactive, no way out. Both will be landing in a duel and end in bitter emotions and expressions. Ultimately spoiling the otherwise cordial relationship.
Especially, when the criticism emerges from a person that is inexperienced and having no basic character of himself, it's bound to create havoc on the person-in-crticism who is well experienced and more disciplined .
I have a friend giving lengthy lectures about the office discipline but failing in his own work.
So Think twice before you scold others.
Thursday, November 7, 2013
Retirement
Many people think retirement is sitting at home after quitting one's job or vocation.
Actually, life starts again after the so-called retirement.
Because it is the time when you need to reestablish your links with the old and forgotten relationships of friendship and kinship.
In fact, it is after the retirement, a person has to take care of both self and spouse. Because
Your children grow and like to be independent. That feeling becomes stronger after their marriage.
Life after the retirement needs more courage and tolerance to face the moments, sensitive and ever changing.
So one needs to be active post-retirement to stay in the life race.
Actually, life starts again after the so-called retirement.
Because it is the time when you need to reestablish your links with the old and forgotten relationships of friendship and kinship.
In fact, it is after the retirement, a person has to take care of both self and spouse. Because
Your children grow and like to be independent. That feeling becomes stronger after their marriage.
Life after the retirement needs more courage and tolerance to face the moments, sensitive and ever changing.
So one needs to be active post-retirement to stay in the life race.
Tuesday, November 5, 2013
Without Problems , There is No Life
Feeling quite helpless. CTS checks debited to us, but actually returned. Pension less credited in many accounts. Problems over which branch has no control. Plus victim of fraud. Complaints and only complaints. Is there light at the end of the tunnel.
This is the post of a Bank employee that I recently read on Facebook.
I replied as.
The only solution is.....analyse your problems with a positive mind that you can overcome those problems.....Don't see the tunnel of darkness...try to come out of or break the tunnel itself to see the light. Because nobody has an idea of your being trapped inside the tunnel. Will power is mightier than the problem you face.
Sunday, November 3, 2013
Festivals bring Peace and Prosperity
Festivals always bring pomp and cheers to all people.
Life without festival is unthinkable and boring also.
Because a festival makes people mingle and exchange ideas and experiences.In that process, the stains of strained relationships and mistrust are removed whilst the seeds of mutualism and coexistence are sown.
Diwali is the only festival of India when everybody, irrespective of the religion or nationality or culture, feels and enjoys the most of happiness. It's the occasion for building and strengthening the bonds of love and friendship among the varied societies and cultures of the country.
Generally Diwali is described to be the celebration of victory of Good over Bad and Lights over Darkness.
The Puranas say Lord Rama won a glorious victory over the demon king Ravana of Lanka. After the victory, He came to Ayodhya with his dear brother Laxman and wife Sita. The people of Ayodhya celebrated the victory by lighting candles and lamps. Thus, Lord Ramachandra was congratulated.
As Diwali is considered the most auspicious day of the year, New business is started and old business is renewed from this day. People wear new clothes, distribute sweets and pleasantries to all while colorful crackers are fired to make the entire sky witness and reflect the gaiety and splendour of the festivity.
People make every Diwali a memorable day of their life by bringing in new books, gadgets, apparels, gifts, etc.. and also by gifting the clothes, cash and other items to the less fortunate and poor people.
So Diwali is a Festival of Give and Take of Happiness among ourselves. Aiming for Peace and Prosperity to stay.
Friday, November 1, 2013
Remember the Help done by others
Gratitude is the apt word to convey the title of this post.
Remembering the help from others and returning it promptly is termed as gratitude.
Sadly this characteristic is rare to see nowadays among many of us.
Who bothers to feel for even the help rendered by others and say a humble phrase" Thank you".
One who appreciates even the smallest help of others and repays without any expectations is a real human.
Superior is the person who instantly forgives the mistakes of others but remembers only the good deeds . Such person will win the hearts of all.
All wrong actions will be pardoned but forgetting the help from others.
Be grateful to those who help you.
Monday, October 28, 2013
Feel happiness in helping others
Wherever, whatever and whenever you are, keep helping others.
Never postpone it.
Do it always.
No such thing that you can help only when you are rich or when you are old.
Many people think that opportunity should present itself for helping others.
Few examples to understand the methods to help others.
- when you travel in a bus or train, stand up and allow the old and unhealthy persons to sit in your seats.
- donate to the needy and orphaned people when you celebrate your special days of life.
- contribute to the emergency funds in times of natural calamities.
Pleasure from helping others is satisfying and long lasting.
It induces to do more such acts.
It always feels great and better when you help others voluntarily.
Source: Thirukkural, a Tamil Classical Poetry comprising of 1330 simple life-guiding Couplets. This classic has been translated into almost all the world languages.
Thursday, October 24, 2013
One Swallow doesn't make a Summer
This is the old saying which holds good for ever.
But the appearance of a swallow can be an indicator of the immediate onset of summer. Possibility is there that the bird has by mistake passed thorough your place.
Something that you say which means because one good thing has happened, you cannot therefore be certain that more good things will happen and the whole situation will improve.
When a Smuggler makes a donation to a temple, it doesn't mean that he has changed entirely.
Only time has to confirm this.
So better judge a thing or a person only after several interactions or after watching the recurrence of an event.
Don't jump to a conclusion and end up in feeling sorry later.
But the appearance of a swallow can be an indicator of the immediate onset of summer. Possibility is there that the bird has by mistake passed thorough your place.
Something that you say which means because one good thing has happened, you cannot therefore be certain that more good things will happen and the whole situation will improve.
When a Smuggler makes a donation to a temple, it doesn't mean that he has changed entirely.
Only time has to confirm this.
So better judge a thing or a person only after several interactions or after watching the recurrence of an event.
Don't jump to a conclusion and end up in feeling sorry later.
Tuesday, October 22, 2013
Character Makes
Speaking loudly about people that lived with unassailable discipline should be the courage of books.
Listing the pride of such people likens the accounting of people who were born and died so far.
Exercise of control over senses leads to godliness and bliss.
Unbiased interest makes peace and happiness.
Source: Thirukkural, a Tamil Classical Poetry comprising of 1330 simple life-guiding Couplets. This classic has been translated into almost all the world languages.
Sunday, October 20, 2013
Rain
Rain is the ambrosia of earth : it forms the source of life by enabling food production and serving as food drink.
If it fails, life starves even though earth is surrounded by oceans .
Even a grass straw does not rise.
Even the life of ocean suffers.
Even the prayers to God cease.
Even sanctity gets erased.
Total disorder prevails.
So let us appreciate the value of rain and preserve the precious water for life to prosper on earth.
So let us appreciate the value of rain and preserve the precious water for life to prosper on earth.
Source: Thirukkural, a Tamil Classical Poetry comprising of 1330 simple life-guiding Couplets. This classic has been translated into almost all the world languages.
Friday, October 18, 2013
God
When you understand and surrender to the Selfless God , you need not worry about your self. He takes care of everything of you. But remain faithful and devotional unto Him.
You would never feel the sorrows of life ; instead construe them to be the effects of God to test and prepare you for greater happiness.
Like rains gladdening the souls of parched lands.
Like farmer reaping the harvest after a long wait and toil.
Like Blind Eyes , Dumb mouth,etc..your head becomes useless if it doesn't bow before God.
Faith in Nature is belief in God only.
Dedication in service to the fellow beings is actually the service to God.
Only with unfailing faith in Almighty ,one can surpass the vicious cycle of life and death.
Source: Thirukkural, a Tamil Classical Poetry comprising of 1330 simple life-guiding Couplets. This classic has been translated into almost all the world languages.
Wednesday, October 16, 2013
Character speaks louder
Speaking loudly about people that lived with unassailable discipline should be the courage of books.
Listing the pride of such people likens the accounting of people who were born and died so far.
Exercise of control over senses leads to godliness and bliss.
Unbiased interest makes peace and happiness.
Source: Thirukkural, a Tamil Classical Poetry comprising of 1330 simple life-guiding Couplets. This classic has been translated into almost all the world languages.
Monday, October 14, 2013
Sadism
Some people get a thrill from cheating or misbehaving with others. Here I mean those who do it regularly.Such people feel a sense of power and superiority over others. They never feel sorry for what they do. This sort of attitude can be termed as Hardcore Sadism.
But there are some people who tend to be dishonest and unethical for a temporary period. Such persons feel guilty afterwards.This behaviour can be called as Superficial Sadism. Take for instance the case of a Rich person pampering the Government for satisfying selfish motive of prompting his business but at the cost of the society.
Friday, October 11, 2013
Help others
Wherever, whatever and whenever you are, keep helping others.
Never postpone it.
Do it always.
No such thing that you can help only when you are rich or when you are old.
Many people think that opportunity should present itself for helping others.
Few examples to understand the methods to help others.
- when you travel in a bus or train, stand up and allow the old and unhealthy persons to sit in your seats.
- donate to the needy and orphaned people when you celebrate your special days of life.
- contribute to the emergency funds in times of natural calamities.
Pleasure from helping others is satisfying and long lasting.
It induces to do more such acts.
It always feels great and better when you help others voluntarily.
Source: Thirukkural, a Tamil Classical Poetry comprising of 1330 simple life-guiding Couplets. This classic has been translated into almost all the world languages.
Tuesday, October 8, 2013
God reaches you
Prayers make you go closer to God.
But when you do service to others, God comes closer to you.
Service here refers to any type of assistance renderd.
It can be in the form of giving funds or providing the materials like cloth, food, medicine,etc....
Even it can be the soothing words and prayers wishing the welfare .
Service to others means such service made to all kinds of life on this earth.
Share your wealth and health for serving Humans, Animals and Insects.
Hinduism has gone a step further to say "Feed the departed souls and ancestors by practising rituals ".
Therefore remember " Service to Others is service to God only".
Sunday, October 6, 2013
Peace and Happiness
When you feel happiness. Only when you have a mind without distractions or worries.
In other words, Peace is the cause and Happiness is the result.
But how to get a Mind that is free of sorrows and oscillations?
Definitely we have ways and means to achieve the much needed peace in Mind.
But easy to list rather than practice these routes. However,these are the time-tested measures handed down by Scholars and Saints.
1. Have a Child- like mind. Forget the past and indulge in the present
2. Share that what you have. Distribute to others and enjoy the happiness of others.
3. Remain unbiased and unaffected in all situations. Pain or pleasure, treat them equally.
4. Appreciate the goodness in everything. Everything in the world has a purpose of its own.
5. Realise the meaning of life to live together in harmony with all that surround you.
Friday, October 4, 2013
Cultivate Your Ability
It's crazy world .Many of us try to imitate others.
If your neighbour gets the latest Smart TV, you scramble to get the same for your home also.
When the kids of your friend study in a good college, making all efforts to see your children also get admission in the same place.
If you friend buys a new jewellery, yearning to do the same thing.
Why not we understand the needs that are appropriate to us?
Why don't we realise what is our potential and make a difference out of it.
Each person has distinct and inherent skill.
The one who identifies and develops that innate ability is bound to shine in life.
This is the secret of all successful personalities.
Tuesday, October 1, 2013
Terminal Illness
A disease or affliction which cannot be cured but the sufferings are unbearable, the condition is termed as Terminal Illness. Very aged people also said to suffer this.
Naturally, the person affected by this TI will loose faith in his existence and will wish to die at the earliest by some means: either with medical assistance or self killing. But no law permits homicide and in fact, it punishes the patient and the person who assists for such self killing.
Strange are the ways of Laws !
But we don't let animals suffer, so why humans?
People with TI are in great pain and distress and they should have the right to end their lives.
Both terminally ill persons and those who help them to die , should be free from prosecution.
Sunday, September 29, 2013
Be What You are
Trying to copy others will land you in trouble. Even your life will be at peril.
The list is endless.
A Sparrow cannot become an Eagle even if it flies high.But risk of being shot by an arrow is more.
A Dog can never be a Tiger even if it wears the skin of Tiger.
Like wise, by having a stethoscope, you cannot become a Doctor.
Neither a Black gown wouldn't make you a Lawyer.
The list is endless.
The consequences of assuming the role of others are several and severe.
Each person has an individuality which needs to be polished and maintained.
Simple truth is this.
Remain what you are and Not as What are you not.
Friday, September 27, 2013
Never Give up
No sincere person will face defeats:surely that person is on the road of fortune.
These are the guiding words from Lord Krishna found in Bhagavad Gita.
Like Sun rising after gloom of night and Rain pours after summer, success is bound to follow your defeats.
So never give up till you succeed.
Wednesday, September 25, 2013
Turn Failure into Success
Every situation throws up winners as well as losers.
Believe it.
Light shines surely after a dark-filled tunnel.
However with a change in your attitude, defeat can be turned into victory.
The world is full of examples of people who were once called as failure and flops but they persisted and proved to become legends.
Never feel crest fallen when you face failures.
Failures actually serve to look back and gain experience and insight for future success.
There is no history of continuous failures.
Believe it.
You are sure to taste success after any number of failures.
Light shines surely after a dark-filled tunnel.
Sunday, September 22, 2013
Live like a Lotus
Just as a lotus remains untouched by the water even when lying in that water, a person who works without any attachment towards the fruits of his actions and further assigns them to God, always remains untouched by evil."
- Lord Krishna in " Bhagavad Gita"
This means we should swim the ocean of life without being drowned in it.
But by remembering the Almighty all the time.
That is the best and only way to Salvation.
But by remembering the Almighty all the time.
That is the best and only way to Salvation.
Thursday, September 19, 2013
Get Rid of Pride
Truth is omnipresent but we fail to realize it through our conscious efforts.
Listen to what Lord Krishna says in the Bhagavad Gita
"I encompass this entire creation in my invisible form. All creatures depend on me, but I am not dependent on them.
And yet they do not live in me.
While I am the maintainer and the source of them, my Self is not contained in them.
Just as the wind found in the sky, blows everywhere, so are all beings found in me."
Never take credit for your works but to God.
Never get carried that nobody knows your silent and secret actions.
There is one Overseer for your life. Anywhere. Anytime.
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